Hunky Interview: LEX SABRE

LEX SABRE

I remember watching a film I had to review for Gay Chicago magazine, on one of those days when you’re just “porned out” from watching too much sex happening to everyone but you … when I happened upon an outdoor sex scene featuring a small, handsome and very, very hot young Hispanic guy in his twenties; a real shorty who was packing a dick that would make the sluttiest of homos drop to his knees, screaming “Glory!” The guy reminded me of my first love … who was Mexican, shorter and younger than me, and – although with the face of a boy – exuded machismo like only a true Hispanic/Latino can. And this jaded porn writer suddenly found himself turned on – and turned out – by the scene, in which this hot little Mexican studbull tore up the butt of a young, blondish-haired boy that I soooo envied, I about fell off the couch. It was a no-brainer; I became enamored of the topman on sight.

So to say it was a pleasure, mere months later, to actually interview Lex Sabre, about his life and career … well, that’s an understatement. I’m still enamored of Lex Sabre – but now not only of the porn star, but also of the sweet, sexy and charming man inside. Better still … I’m happy, now, to call him my friend.

Born just this side of the California-Mexico border, Sabre – who is Mexican – was raised in a strict Catholic household with an older brother. Self-described as “short and scrawny,” Lex was able to easily laugh off the teasing of his peers, growing up a happy, normal boy who dated only girls throughout high school and college. In fact, although he’d had offers (and even his share of curiosity), it wasn’t until Sabre was 20 years old that the 5’5” hottie finally took the plunge into gay sex.

“My first was a guy in his late forties or early fifties,” Lex recalls. “Basically just oral and it felt kind of weird when I did it … afterward, I didn’t know who to tell – had to be very discreet. But we still talk to this day – I still call from time to time, whenever I can. It was nice.”

The experience brought Sabre out as a gay man, but it wasn’t even three years ago when a browse through none other than the infamous Craigslist brought Lex Sabre to a modeling gig in Los Angeles – where he didn’t find out, until arriving for the interview, that he’d have to do the work nude. Needing the money, Lex did the job – and that first naked gig took him through a series of events that finally led Sabre to All Worlds and his first film, No Folks @ Home.

“It went well,” Sabre recalls of his first time … filming. “I was fine, not really nervous … but then got nervous at ‘Action!’. I was able to put that nervousness into the scene, though, so it worked – plus my partner was nervous too, which helped a lot."

That first scene – and nine inches of chorizo swinging between his strong legs - brought the boyish-in-stature Sabre to getting off as a fairly aggressive topman on film. Now, however – after 17 movies in just over two-and-a-half years – when asked about a favorite scene he’s done, or a fantasy sex scene he’d like to do … the aggressive topman with the big cock hints at, perhaps, a submissive power bottom inside:

“In Link: The Evolution I liked being the submissive top; got off on it, though I liked being the aggressor, too. But for my personal favorite?” (thinking a moment) “I would like to – my personal favorite – well, I like daddy Ty Hudson. Very muscular. I think my fantasy would be, like, a friend’s dad; maybe a coach – a white guy that I could dominate, or be dominated by.” And when asked what type of man catches his eye? “I’m open – I can be attracted to a blonde with blue or green eyes … straight-looking and acting … but I can also be attracted to just your average guy. It’s more about the guy.”

When asked about how doing porn has changed his private sex life, Sabre admits, “My personal life is different – though yes, I can be a very sexual person off-camera as well. But yeah … yeah, I guess it does carry over. I’m definitely more aggressive in bed, privately, with my partner now.”

So then what, Mr. Sabre, makes for a hot partner on film? Without hesitation Lex cites ‘Good chemistry; a good connection. I did a scene with one of Chi Chi Larue’s exclusives, Jan Fischer – who was good-looking, European/German; it made the scene, because I was totally into him. Also Jonathan Lowe, only because the director kept teasing us, saying we were making love and not fucking – which we were. We just connected really well, sexually. And Ken Browning, from Link: The Evolution. He’s a very funny guy, and I was totally impressed with his stature. He played the cop well, when he was interrogating me; it really made the scene that much hotter. That was probably the ‘twinkiest’ I’ve ever been in a film … and it really changed me. It was like I was put to the test, and I passed. It was one of the best times I’ve had filming.” Sabre even names Ty Hudson as the guy he’d most like to work with, and so far hasn’t – another fantasy he’d like fulfilled on film.

And good news, men – Sabre is not only single … the well-hung Mexican topman is also a romantic at heart.

“I definitely want to date,” he says. “I’m a very physical person, yes, especially because of my work – but dating, finding someone, wouldn’t affect my career. I have a separate career outside the porn industry – so if I found that person, and fell in love … I’d definitely pull out of the adult stuff. I believe in monogamy.”

Lex Sabre – hopeless romantic?

Yes – but whoever lands this hot little 27-year-old catch is also in for one hell of a sex life, as Lex holds nothing back in talking about his favorite sexual positions, or what’s reserved for off-camera.

“I’m not picky about what I like in bed, but a few months back … I was sitting up, and I had someone in my lap, riding me – and I loved it. Also, what gets me to come is when someone comes on me first. When they shoot first … it just gets me off. I also like to rim someone forever before having sex with him. I’ve rimmed someone for, like, an hour before – and came just doing that. I also love well-developed biceps on a guy; turns me on.

“On-camera, though, I would never bottom. I’m primarily a top anyway, but privately would be versatile for the right guy. Other than that, I can’t think of anything I wouldn’t do on-camera, within reason. I’ve even eaten my own cum.”

Hot. Sweeter still, the sexy-as-hell porn star with the hopeless romantic inside him also happens to have his Masters in a professional field … so damned if the guy with the face, the body, and the heart … also has a brain. When asked where Sabre would like to see himself in five years:

Sabre laughs. “What I do for a career, in real life, would be a surprise to most people. But I do have an entirely separate career, in the professional field, outside of the porn industry. I’d like to continue working in that, and I’d definitely like to be in love again. Also maybe own a home or condo, and travel more – outside of this country especially, to maybe Europe, Japan, and Australia.”

And although the man who says that the only way being a porn star has changed him is to “make me more verbal and aggressive in private life” – Lex Sabre , the porn star with a heart of gold, still has a few sobering words to say to any young, hot guys out there who are contemplating their own career in the business:

“Always remember – it’s just porn. If you’re going to make a life out of it, look to writing or directing. I wish you the best of luck – but don’t get too caught up in the drama, or the pointing of fingers. Always keep your guard up. And I would also never, EVER promote bareback sex. Just – don’t – do it.”

It’s why you gotta love the guy – all the way, he just cares.

SELECTED FILMOGRAPHY:

Link: The Evolution, In Too Deep, No Folks @ Home, Jonathan's Load

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